If there’s any saying out of all sayings that would not work with me, I would say the saying ‘Jealousy symbolizes love’ or more famously said as ‘cemburu tanda sayang’. To me, that saying is nothing but a complete myth. In fact, I don’t know how can that works with anybody ?
I told Adam that he can’t make me jealous by all means. Not that he ever had any intention to do so though seeing me jealous would slightly amuse him in a way that I could barely understand. I don’t really get jealous if Adam hangs out with his girl friends. But if he overly talks about another girl, I wouldn’t say I’m jealous. More to annoyed perhaps. ;)
Adam on the other hand is a jealous man. Not a hardcore one where he will get jealous over little petty things. I shall rephrase then, Adam is a moderately jealous man. By that, I mean he gets a little jealous when I’m around my guy friends and also when I get a little bit more attention by the men around me. Okay, that I can tolerate but I did warn him that I don’t like unnecessary jealousy and so far he is all right. He got things under control even when he is jealous. That’s why I love him ;)
We both reached 9 months now and I guess by now he should understand that the reason that I don’t get jealous or I don’t want him to get jealous is because I love him dearly and he is all that I ever wanted. That is all he needs to keep in mind and heart at all time. :)