One of the things that turns me off is when someone is too modest. Too modest as in when he puts himself down under, six feet under or beyond that. You know it’s not cool when you put yourself too low. It brings so much of negative vibes that could make me not continue a relationship or even a conversation.
It is fine being modest. Modesty is a good thing. But everything in life should be done in moderation and that applies on being modest too. I admire very much people who stands up for himself, people who has a little bit sense of stuck-up-ness in himself, people who’s confident despite what people might think of him being so.
Human being is God’s best and greatest creation. To me, it is a huge insult to the Almighty when you put yourself so low below the ground, when you abused the way of being modest.